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Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Hm thoughts...

Fantasy of a Utopia

Utopia is that which is in contradiction with reality,” states Albert Camis in Between Hell and Reason.

Throughout history humans have constantly been on the pursuit of a better life, in search of a utopia, without realizing such a goal is unachievable. A utopia, an ideal place or state, is a concept that dwells in the gray area as each interpretation is drastically different from one to another. And in this entirely perfect concept human emotions cease to exist because in a utopian society one could never hold desires of success over another if the balance is to be kept. Still through time humans visualized of this perfect world and with that so changed the utopias of the times from stone to industrial to technological – a utopian society must be ever changing. A utopian society eludes reality as abstract definition, human nature and the need for constant evolution to accommodate changing times hold it to the world of fantasies.

The undefined nature of a utopia is the first roadblock in materializing it. In the worlds of John Carey in The Intellectual and the Masses, “one person's utopia is another's dystopia.” A utopia in simplest form can be defined as the materialization of one's deepest desires. In 1941 Adolf Hitler attempted the complete obliteration of the Jewish race to achieve his utopian dream of having only Teutonic races living in the Ukraine. For Hitler this was expression of his desires, his utopia. Since other's desires are unknown a utopia as creating a singular dream of perfection is impossible without disregarding some, if not all but one opinion. Therefore the task now becomes to not only create a singular dream, but to encompass all people into this perfect world. Many dream of being waited on hand and foot by slaves. These dreams are clearly outlines in both Plato's The Republic and Thomas More's Utopia. In a utopia all people would live a perfect world not just those that some deem fit and this makes the dream of a utopia unrealistic as not every one holds the same morals. This is illustrated best in “The Veldt” by Ray Bradbury. In the short story the parents hold family time to a greater importance than the children who pine for their beloved technology. They can not come to agreement and it ends in tragedy because since they hold different morals their utopias can not co-exist. Where one's utopia begins the other's ends. As dynamic as humans are, opinions are are just as unique hence one collective vision of perfection is impossible.

Human character and emotions such as greed, ambition and opinion all prevent from a utopian society, or in other words the possible inhabitants become the environment's downfall. In the short story, “The Veldt” by Ray Bradbury the selfishness of humans is exposed as in the pursuit for technological possessions to fulfill their quest for a utopia the children, Peter and Wendy, go as far as to murder their own parents. If a utopian society were to exist the emotions of greed and selfishness would disrupt the peace of an equal community. By nature all animals, including humans have ambition. 'The grass is greener syndrome', the desire to get father in life and never being satisfied with what one has would over throw the frail balance of every person in a utopian society. If one person began to strive for more than the balance allowed then everyone would be thrown off kilter and the result would be the destruction of the entire society. For the perfect civilization everyone must always agree on and be content living with every rule, law and social trend. As humans it is inevitable that various opinions arise and this is how balanced laws and rules are created. Hypothetically if there was only one mass opinion the world would be a very bland place to live and even the slightest change would destroy the entire social structure. This has been shown in history time and time again with citizens decide to rebel against an unjust ruler. For example in January 2011 in Egypt the citizens realized they had a very different idea for a utopian society than their leader and decided to make a change. This shows that a single opinion can not decide the utopia for all and this completely shuts down any utopian concept. Since everyone has different opinions and aspirations there can be no one perfect utopia that holds true to everyone's dreams and still if there was to be one it would only be a matter of time until human nature would bring up a new desire that would call for a completely new utopia.

Discontent is the first step towards progress. It is with new discoveries and ideas that humans have been able to continue their progress in all aspects of civilization and without the flexibility of change any society is petrified in time. With the concept of a utopian society's perfection it is implied that everything is already at it's climax and can not be bettered in any way. This would mean that all scientific research and intellectual gain would cease to exist therefore this hypothetical utopian society would not have allowed for humans to even come out of the stone age. In order for new conceptualization old concepts must be challenged for humanity's gain as a whole. In approximately 1610 Galileo disrupted the general belief that the sun revolved around the earth by stating the exact opposite and today humans have gone so far as to have explored nearly every planet in the solar system. In a utopian society this would not have occurred as Galileo would have had to be content with the general social opinion and even before that he would not even be searching for new astronomical findings as he would have been content with his utopia. Without the flexibility to change and ability create new semi-utopias humanity would have been wiped out long ago. The capacity to learn is one of the traits that have made humans such a global somewhat of a global success story. When humans are cut off from the ability to adapt they relatively quickly can no longer survive. This is proven with many ancient civilizations such as the Mayans. The Mayans were a utopia in the sense that they did not feel the need to change because they felt everything was already perfect, however this ultimately led to their demise as their empire fell due to lack of adaptability. A utopian society is not only impossible it is impractically as it does not allow for human beings to adapt to new environments with their gaining knowledge.

The fable of a utopian society can never exist in an authentic situation as it's ambiguous definition, human nature and lack of flexibility are that of only fairy tales. This concept of a utopia is much too personal to be practiced in an actual society as what one may find to be the ideal existence the other would define the same as hell on earth. As humans are naturally wired to strive for what they believe in and as a utopia calls for a balance that all find acceptable, it's existence is not possible because it demands for the destruction of one of natures beauties, the unique qualities of each human's character. Not only is a utopia impossible and against natural instinct, it is self destructing. A utopian society shuts down progress and freezes itself in time which eventually leads it into regression. The aim of a utopia is what keeps humans moving forward in their accomplishments and for that maybe it is a good thing that it remains an aim, so there shall always be something to strive for.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

*click* times 5



Hey blog world
No I have no idea why my text is coming out underlined. You'll just have to learn to deal with this deformity in my text.

I went into my room clicked five times in the direction of some stuff I'd like to share with y'all. Yaay. Whoot. Huzzah!


These are my yellow gloves. *Thank you tiff*
They are sorta fail at being gloves...
but they're yellow so my mind just loves.




Magically the underlining just stopped.
I'm sucha technological fail.
This is why last year I switched from info tech into textiles (which I also failed at...)
BUH I created this stuffed bunny thing...
Yeah, pretty darn proud of myself.
Another thank you at Tiff for the above awesome piece of art. Yes. It's my name. Still waiting to hang this up :O



And now some of my art work! (Okay so all the pieces were precut and were really stickers but ART nonetheless.) It's great. Dontcha think?
And last but obviously the best thing in the whole wide world... HP books. No HP is not a computer company thing (or printer? whichever... my lack of technology knowledge comes out again. fail oh fail) But yes HP fan I is.


(Excuse the odd spacing, lettering and general chaos of this post, but hey I said I'm a technological fail?)

Saturday, January 1, 2011

And this is when you know the world has crashed. *splat*

Mom and I spent the afternoon of our New Year's Eve up in the mountainous region known as Squamish with the family. It was the normal time ya know a couple board games, some pool, the normal but then my little cousins decided that they wanted to play "make over". (This basically consists of them putting chap stick on me and pretending that they're painting my nails.) Being just the amazzzzingggg cousin I am (Oh hello humility where ya been?)I played along. This is where my thought for the day begins...
After they had taken turns putting chap stick on me (yes they both had to do it) one of them says casually, now we'll give you a lazer treatment.
I'd like to take this time to quickly tell you that my cousins are both between 5-10. Uh ya.
This randomly said statement kinda caught me off gaurd so I asked them, "Uhh what do you mean? We're playing make over?"
What was their response, "Ya this is how we play at school! First we do the waxing and the lazer treatments and then we put on the nail polish!"

I was dumb struck honestly at what to say so I just suggested they read a book while I went and got them something to eat.

Thought:
How much are we really effected by the media's idea of "beauty" when little children, no babies are talking about waxing and lazer treatments?

Hm I don't really know where to start expanding on this thought. I guess it makes me sad but I don't really know what one could do to counter act this. I mean other than talking about it ( I did end up actually sitting my cousins down and discussing it with them).
It makes me sad that this is what we've come to. A place where little girls are worrying about such things. It makes me sorta sick to my stomach.
And even worse, I have no idea what to do.


Buddy guy

So sometimes my titles make absolutely no sense. 'Tis fine.
I know you're sitting there everyday constantly refreshing this page like the true creeper you are wondering, "WHY?! Why has Parveen given up her deep love of blogging as a form of entertainment!?"
Well little grasshopper, actually you can be a bumble bee, well dear bumble bee I recently acquired something I had never dreamed of attaining - I got a life. *Insert dramatic music here*

Naah actually I'm just a lazy bum... here's some random stuff I've been up to...

First off Arjan turned 14 *yaaaay*
Only two years away from turning all my mothers hair gray with his driving.
Don't ask why there's a snow man and a Christmas tree. I have no answers to offer.


I went to quite an interesting Christmas Party with my mother (for her work). SO interesting in fact that I entertained myself by taking pictures
of random objects/food. Here's one of my creative
genius moments while there...
Hi sarcasm? No one. Alrighty





Then there was the always magical camp at our local Gurdwara...
This years theme of "Ardaas"
We had some amazing speakers including the ever knowledgeable Japnaam Singh



Made some friends with some really
awesome campers!








Oh and Mehtab made it out too!

*Insert the aweeeeeeeeeeeeee*
Harjot Singh is too good. We're being super heros! Don't hate on the fail poses. We're too cool.

I can't even begin to explain
how amazing these kids were...
I know I was supposed to be teaching them but I think I learned a whole lot more.






*cringe* the beads >.<
Group shot!

Oh and then mother and I ventured out into the mountains...
Went to see the adorable Jasmin!

This is my grandfather.
He's awesome.

And well there you have it, my explaination on what the heck I've been doing other than blogger. I see you're not impressed. Well I promise you there was more but due to bloggers incredibly slow uploading ability you shall have to do without the rest of 'em. I apologize.
...gah actually I'm just lazy.
Story of my life
(Let's just pretend that was used in a cool not trying hard kinda way. Great.)


oh. Oh. OH!
Happy New Year and all that jazz too.

Monday, November 22, 2010

MTV = Equality. Damn straight. *rolls eyes so hard they fall out of my head*

So today in Creative Writing class we had "debate day"... yes writing class. Point we debated random stuff fo sho!
It was awesome!
Until... someone posed this random unrelated question:
[Why is it that in some religions women are expected to do things whereas men are not]
Exact words I can not tell you. (Sadly my memory is a flop.)
I know this question wasn't thrown out there to hurt/attack/specify at anyone because the asker of said question is one cool cat, but it stuck a cord in my um brain.

Thought:
Why do people see this:

And think... equality? Really?

But of course this:

Is obviously a women being suppressed?


This doesn't connect for me. I'm sorry, no no wait I'm not sorry.
I see such beauty in a woman who has enough self respect to not show her body like some sort of object to the world. I see such beauty in a woman who has the courage to stand against the grain of society. I see such beauty in a woman who holds values that extend beyond herself.That woman, that woman is beautiful because she is able to see herself for what she is = priceless.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying anyone who doesn't cover themselves completely has no value of themselves but one must recognize that these women who do, they CHOOSE to, because they feel the need to express their beliefs, to let the world know their morals.



This isn't suppression, it's true beauty.



Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Friday, October 8, 2010

and my mind trails off

Sometimes you need to hit an all time low in order to move upwards.

28/50 on my Chemistry test might do it.
Maybe.

Do I want to die right about now?
Yes.
And then I read this...

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3.. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone.. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time..

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come...

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.".

...written by a 90 year old.